Don't Be Sad

This is a really interesting pieces from a book that I found on one of my friends.
And it's such a waste not to share it to everyone out here. If you want to get rid of sadness and misery then read '4 things' below.

4 things weaken the body:

• Talking too much
• Sleeping too much
• Eating too much
• Engaging in sexual intercourse too frequently

4 things destroy the body:

• Anxiety
• Grief
• Hunger
• Sleeplessness

4 things bring serenity to the heart:

• To look at greenery
• To look at flowing water
• To see a loved one
• To gaze fruits upon the trees

4 things weaken one’s eyesight:

• Walking barefoot,
• Having a frown on one’s face early in the morning and before going to sleep
• Crying frequently
• And reading words in small print.

4 things strengthen the body:

• Wearing soft clothing,
• Taking a shower using water of a moderate temperature,
• Eating sweet and rich foods
• And smelling pleasant odors

4 things take the joy and freshness out of one’s face:

• Lying,
• Insolence (disrespect, boldness)
• Asking too many questions imprudently
• And perpetrating evil deeds frequently

4 things bring light and happiness to one’s face:

• A sense of honour,
• Fulfilling one’s commitments
• Generosity
• Piety

4 things make others detest and loathe you:

• Arrogance
• Jealousy
• Lying
• And spreading false rumors about others

4 things make sustenance come to you freely:

• Standing up at night to pray
• Making repentance late in the night
• Giving charity habitually
• And remembering your Creator in the first and last part of the day

4 things prevent sustenance from coming to you:

• Sleeping in the morning
• Not praying frequently
• Laziness
• And treachery (dishonesty)

4 things weaken one’s mind and understanding:

• Constantly eating our sour foods and fruit
• Sleeping on one’s back
• Worrying
• And feeling anxious

4 things help one to improve one’s understanding:

• Having a light heart
• Not overfilling oneself with food and drink
• Adding sweet and rich foods in moderation to one’s diet
• And getting rid of extra body fat

NOTE: Extracted from the book 'Don’t be Sad' by Aidth ibn Abdullah al-Qarni. Though the book discussed mainly about attaining happiness in an Islamic point of view, I, in the other hand comprehend my views that the book could easily be applied to all system of belief.

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I believe that sometimes happiness and sadness are just two choices. It's either happy or sad. Me

I'm a twin!

NOTE: The following photos may contain nudity. And so you have been warned.

 
What's your zodiac sign? Can you find them?

Well, I am a Gemini. Born on the 23rd of May. It's the one with the twins. According to what it says, I'd have to say I agreed to most of them. I'm those of complex, kind, diverse, sensitive, spoiled, inquisitive, brilliant, creative, witty, funny, flirty and bla bla bla So listen to these which  I liked the most;

Gemini 21 May - 21 Jun

When they're good, they're attractive; when they're bad they're the worse for being the charmers they are (This is so true!). I always warned my friends and loved ones that I could be the best person ever they met but when I'm bad, they would've regretted to be with me LOL

I want this!

It also says that; If things go against them, they sulk like children. Also like children, they demand attention, admiration, and the spending on them of time, energy and money, throwing tantrums if they don't get what they want. But how did they knew this? They were talking about me! I do sulked a lot (It was so ugly!) Small and silly things always go my way. No wonder my guy always called me as 'his child'. How about listen to this one:

"Geminis are people of moods.
In a bad mood 
they may do 
rather stupid things and
reasonable things 
and regret it afterward."

What about in love? It says; they're superficial, lighthearted, flirtatious and unimaginative in the understanding of the pain they may give others. In simple words, Gemini doesn't take anything seriously. It also said that, they like intrigue, the excitement of the chase (I love being chase around!) but once they have caught the prey, they lose interest and look around for the next one to pursue. In less serious situations, they make witty, entertaining companions, good acquaintances rather than friends. Meh? Honestly, I am difficult to be fathom and to be understood.

Traditional Gemini Traits

Adaptable and versatile
Communicative and witty
Intellectual and eloquant
Youthful and lively


On the dark side

Nervous and tense
Superficial and inconsistent
Cunning and inquisitive

NOTE: Courtesy of Astrology Online on Gemini.

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Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself, I am large, I contain multitudes. WW

500 Blog

500 Blog

I'm vulgar and often like to post ridiculous things. Originally from South East Asia. 

I love Full House and Friends. I hate to talk about myself though if you ask I'd appreciate that. 

I just started blogging though I only speak through my tumblr.

Blogging as my passed time only but I enjoyed them as much as I love eating.

NOTE: This post is mainly for the 500 Blog bermula! Yeah I am talking to myself only. Capish?

I am definitely going to kill my sister for making me do this! =)

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If there's a book you really want to read, but it hasn't been written yet, then you must write it. TM

And the nominees are

This is the official award winning of 'the good and the bad guy' that I've ever created so far. OK, let's cut the bulls away, here are the most top listed of the guys who's been with me (in my own Laa Laa Land Dreams).

 Hayden Christensen

He's the biggest crush I've ever had so far. Seen him first on Jumper where I got struck by his sleepy eyes and smirking smiles. Ahhhh that's like heaven. I never actually watched Star Wars (unlike my brother) and despite of his role as Anakin Skywalker on Star Wars, I would like to recognized him as the one actor who could bring the presence of the dark side with a really kind and well manner face on.

 Jim Sturgess

Oh how can you not love Jim Sturgess! I saw his first appearance opposite Natalie Portman and Scarlet Johansson (lucky lucky you!) on The Other Boleyn Girl. It was one of my ancient favorite film ever! Yet, I found him more vulnerable on 21 as the male lead of Ben Campbell, a movie about five MIT students, who, by counting cards, take Las Vegas casinos for millions. And not to mention, he's English!

 Elijah Wood 

Talking about Elijah Wood could actually make me go melting though I won't mind it. By far, Elijah Wood is one of the actor that survived from his young acting career till he went for his first sex scene ever (Is it?) on The Oxford Murders. That kind of ruins my chance to top him at my first list. He just looked so young and kid isn't he? But no one could ever forgotten him as a young Hobbit named Frodo in The Lord of the Rings.

| Christopher Walken |

Err...anyone? Remember Catch Me If You Can, Click or even Hairspray. He's one of the most hilarious actor I've ever imagined with. I like him anyway! Do you mind?

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That was right on my list of things to do today, right between picking up my dry cleaning and chopping off my hand. Everwood

Love is... ?

 

1. When I started to fight with myself over what my heart says and my empty mind would says.

'I love him!' 'No, I don't! I'm just showing a little care.' 

...

'Yes, I do love him! That's why I care!'

NOTE: In most love cases, heart will always be the winner! Your mind is just too immature maybe. Remember what happened between Romeo & Juliet? Read more Shakespeare please!

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2. When I started to feel the importance of the words to be uttered by him. 

'I love you...'

...

'We are meant to be...' 

...

'Oh I love you so much...'

NOTE: The taboo of saying 'I Love You' many times will eventually make 'the words' as a habit or just usual phrases. Nothing is more magical compare to when you actually meant it by saying it. Say it and mean it!

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3. When I started to feel that I'm losing something in my life and still wondering what and why I couldn't figured it out yet.

'I'm lost without you...'
...
I'm missing you in my life...'
...
'I'm fucking misses YOU...' 

NOTE: Missing someone that badly could actually damaging your state of mind! Did you know? LOL

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4. When I started to be the person who's overly demanding the feeling of being in love.

'I NEED you NOW..'
...
'PLEASE stay with me...'
...
'DON'T leave me alone...'

NOTE: Dear heart, make my heart grow faster and bolder so I can manage to control myself. Amen.

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5. When I started to have weird and high dreams of him about how my future days will bring in.

'We're gonna have a happy life forever'
...
'We're gonna die together?'

NOTE: Dreaming about your potential partner could be something that you; yourself knew that you're being over exaggerated. Not until you met them first hand and get to know them in real. Observe more and open your eyes the widest you can.

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6. When I started to make a lot of wishes regarding himself alone.

'I wanna be with you; the one and only'
...
'I long for you since inception'

NOTE: Talking about being selfish manner LOL

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PS: Post above is just a matter of looking at what 'love' can be at my own jurisdiction and nothing else intended or maybe this could help...

And a very happy birthday to my dearest babe today! Love you!

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The best feeling in the world is to be millions of miles away and still be able to picture his eyes. Unknown

I am a British

...NOT!!! Oh how I wish I am eh (No I would rather not actually!)

Let me revealed few lovely things that made me so horrendously think I could be the one English young lady someday. To make it short, I started to love being so 'English' none other due to its unique accent that blew up my mind. I made that awe-inspiring expression on my face when hearing the versatility of English accent (thanks to my niece!) when I had to acquaintance with...

 (i) Film

Yep, when 'Harry Potter and The Sorcerer's Stone' and the latter came to life.
Believe me or not, the film was one of the extraordinarily what I want during my childhood. I wasn't a good critics myself who judge a film based on the most hype given but I could tell if I saw one.

(ii) Books

If there's a film, sure enough there's a book. Came along way back before the film version is those seven demonic books (I think the book is cursed because it kept on haunting me every night of my life!) written by J.K Rowling that makes my life more miserable than ever.

(iii) A stud

He's Jim Sturgess by the way =)
I actually (the biggest secrets ever documented!) met an English stud who later on became my best buddy. He's a Scottish, adorable good looking guy, pretty well grounded, polite, kind, a great cook and the most important thing I like about him is he sings! Yes, he could very well sing, played guitar and composed a song with which he performs well up on the stage. Ahhhh I love him. Trust me, he's a big crush ever created!

OK, fair enough about me fantasizing the world of British. Now, let's move on to something interesting. So, listen attentively.

Slang (British - American) 

All right? - Hello, how are you?

Belt up - Shut up

Cheers - Goodbye
Fluke - Something great happened to you by chance
Honking - Being sick/throwing up
Luvvly-jubbly - lovely

People

Chap - A guy in American
Fire brigade - Fire department
Flat mate - Room mate
Mate - Buddy or friend.
Solicitor - An attorney
Tramp - Homeless person

Food & Drink

Biscuit - Cookie
Chips - Fries
Cordial - A concentrated drink (Just add water everyone!)
Cuppa - Cup of tea
Spirits - Liquors

Oh I could make this lists going on and on. Maybe I should just make this as 'once in a while posts learning about British.' (I second that!)




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I love every little thing about him. The good and the bad. They all make up him, and he's all I want. JK